Category Archives: Life Experiences

SUNDAY DRIVE

Remember the phrase, “Sunday driver”? I think it comes from the days when the automobile was still a novelty, and people would take their car out for a Sunday drive. In no hurry, Sunday drivers might mosey along oblivious to posted speed limits or the line of frustrated drivers behind them. I think I came along too late to know that era when simply having a vehicle was sufficient to pass for family entertainment.  Sunday Drive - Scenic Hwy 1

Today, with gas prices what they are and our constantly revolving schedules, who has the inclination for a Sunday drive? It may just be me, but if I’m going to drive I want a destination. If I’m in the vehicle I want to get somewhere.

I suppose I could be talked into a Sunday drive if it were just Becky and I – but I’d only do so because it is “romantic” – and our purpose would be to find a romantic spot for a soda or picnic.

It is about purpose. I want the things I do to have meaning, to be leading to something, and something good. Don’t you?

The same applies to the life of the church. Do you ever get the sense that attending church can be more like a Sunday drive than moving to a destination? I have. It might actually be enjoyable for a while, but it loses the novelty pretty quickly for me. And if you’re not sitting in the front seat, it is truly a bore.

This is one reason churches see young people, young adults and young families drift away to other pursuits – they get tired of riding around in the back seat going nowhere. We can entertain them for a time, but they can’t even whine, “Are we there yet?” because we have no “there” to get to. There’s no clear destination, no purpose for the trip. It’s just, “Put on your seatbelt and sing along.” And then one day they figure out they can unclick the belt and open the door.

This is why we are shaping up a purpose for Bethany Church. It’s not enough to just get together for a Sunday drive – we need a purpose, a destination. As followers of Jesus, we’ve been given a mandate to “Go and Make Disciples of All Nations”, baptizing and teaching them to follow Christ (Mt. 28:18-20). The Apostle Paul put it another way when he said, “As God’s grace reaches more and more people, there will be great thanksgiving, and God will receive more and more glory” (2 Cor.4:15). Our purpose is to make disciples, and to do that, we need to make Christ Jesus known and help people respond to God’s invitation to know him.

For Bethany, we say it like this: “Our purpose is to make Christ Jesus known in our communities and beyond.” That word “known” is deep – for us it means everything from an introduction to a life-transforming commitment to follow Christ, baptized and empowered by the Holy Spirit to take the Christ-life seriously.

I’m losing my interest in aimless Sunday drives, aren’t you? If we’re not going somewhere, why bother?

In upcoming blogs I’ll talk about Mission and Vision as well. For now I encourage you to think about our destination, our purpose. Where are we driving? Why? And how will we get there?

Brian Wiebe-Lead Pastor

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Finding Balance

Most of us are acquainted with someone who recently graduated whether it was from high school, college, or graduate school. In fact, two of my nephews just graduated from high school in Kentucky. Although I wasn’t able to attend the festivities, I’m sure there was a party to celebrate each one’s rite of passage into adulthood.  Not only are students graduating from high school and college, but it’s also wedding season. Weddings…now that’s a whole different level of planning and anxiety. Cake, punch, wedding and reception location, photographer, videographer, food, bridesmaids, groomsmen, gifts for the wedding party, not to mention the rehearsal dinner and a whole host of other extremely important things that I have surely left out.

You might be wondering where this is going. To be honest, I’m not sure I can articulate exactly why I am perplexed by all the forethought and planning goes into these types of life events. I think it has to do with the uncertainty of the transition from one life stage to the next. I do know that I am once again standing on the brink of “What next?” At age 43, all of the planning and life direction that I thought was mapped out just a few years ago is again changing. And just as that high school or collage graduate, or that newly married young man, I’m trying to make sense of what the future will bring. I must admit that I’m guilty of always looking 5 or 10 years down the road and not only wondering, but also worrying, about what those years hold for my family and me. I’m guilty of forgetting to live and find joy in the small moments of each day.  philippians-4-11

I take comfort and find hope in Paul’s words from Philippians 4:11, “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” My challenge is finding the balance between “do not worry about tomorrow” in Matthew 6:34 and the constant temptation to look ahead.

 

Roy Moore – Interim Youth Director

 

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Cleaning House

Company’s coming to stay with us a couple days. These are missionary friends we met in the Philippines and have not seen in several years. They’ve never been in our home, so we’re looking forward to the opportunity to reconnect.

When company comes, especially out of town overnight guests, we get busy. The house gets extra cleaning, furniture might get moved around a little, and the yard gets some special attention. I don’t think we’re being disingenuous – there’s just something in all of us that wants to put our good foot forward, make a good impression, and appear calm and chaos-free.

Let’s be honest – besides the neat-nicks among us, our homes are not always perfectly tidy. The dirty laundry doesn’t always hit the hamper, undealt-with mail languishes on the table, and the detritus of life finds countertops and coffee tables. We fear that someone may drop by and see what we are really like in the midst of a busy week. And yet, if we happen upon a friend’s “au naturel” house we’re not offended. Is this double standard hypocritical?

It depends on attitude. One person scrubs down the house for fear of how others will judge them if it is less than spotless, while another puts in the extra effort as an act of love for the guest. Same exterior result, different internal motivation. But the self-centered way will drive you crazy, while the other-focused effort brings joy. To realize, “I’m creating a homey welcome for my guests” makes mopping and dusting strangely satisfying.

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This weekend at Bethany Church you’re going to notice a fresh look to our parking areas – fresh sealant and parking lines on the asphalt. You’ll notice the usual excellent work of the Sod Squad keeping grass green and sidewalks edged. In the evening you’ll notice attractive energy-saving LED street lamps, and soon you’ll be logging on to a new website. The Stewardship team is working on a plan to improve our restrooms and apply an overdue coat of paint to the building exterior in the near future, and a design team is exploring ways to freshen the look of our stage area.

Why you ask? Because taking care of our facilities is responsible stewardship. The building and grounds belong to the Lord, and he has entrusted them to us. We also want to create an attractive and welcoming environment for friends and neighbors. This is not driven out of fear or pride for what others will think of us – it’s an act of love to the unsaved and unchurched friends we are seeking to introduce to Jesus. Creativity also reflects the nature of our Heavenly Father, the First Artist and Almighty Creator. We want our facilities to say, “Welcome, relax, be at home and at ease, in a place where you will hear the Good News of God’s great love for you.”

Hebrews 13:2a reminds us, “Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers.” That’s why I’m excited to see some fresh changes. If it means I need to contribute some extra effort or extra funds, I’m willing, because I love our friends and neighbors enough to give them a fresh and clean welcome. I’m not trying to impress anyone, I just want to show our love by making the wonderful Bethany facilities an even better place to hear the Good News and be introduced to Jesus our Lord.

 

Brian Wiebe- Lead Pastor

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Violet’s Pest Control

Recently, our kids were playing with some friends out in the church play yard after Mommy and Me.  The girls were congregated around a corner of the yellow play house, crouched down in the dirt, looking intently at something captivating.  Suddenly, my 4 year old, Evy, came running toward me, crying and afraid.

“They’re biting me!”  she cried, as she frantically rubbed her legs.

Sure enough, a rebel legion of kid-biting ants had infiltrated the church play yard.  Evy, the brave scout, had met the enemy forces.  We quickly brushed the ants from her legs and shoes before asking, “So where did all these ants come from?”  She pointed back to where her 3 year old sister, Violet stood.  As I jogged to curious Violet, I realized that she was standing right in the middle of a concentrated colony of black ants.  I carried her (heroically, at arms’ length!)  away from the pile only to find that her shoes, legs, and little, white dress were swarming with black ants!  Three of us, Annette, Megan, and I, worked together quickly to brush off all the ants.

When the situation settled down and we’d all caught our breath, Annette remarked to Megan and me that she’d have to tell Bob (the church custodian, janitor, maintenance guy, and all around superhero of helpfulness) about the ants so he could take care of them before Sunday morning.  Perhaps he had some ant spray or some other magical chemical to destroy them?  As Annette walked over to talk to Bob, tiny warrior Violet, fresh from the battle, fought fire with fire, saying,

“Dear God, please make the ants go away.  In Jesus name, Amen.”

Then she trotted off to the playground while Megan and I stared at each other incredulously, saying, “Why didn’t we think of that?!” photo (9)

When Bob valiantly entered the scene, Megan and I joked that his help was no longer needed.  Violet had called in the big guns.  But we weren’t really joking… were we?  Perhaps Violet’s prayer was all that was needed to solve the ant problem.  Surely, the Creator of living things could completely relocate this massive army of ants in a miraculously timely manner before church on Sunday!  Violet believed this and her faith-saturated prayer was the most practical option in her untainted mind.

“Now this I know:

The LORD gives victory to his anointed.  He answers him from His heavenly sanctuary with the victorious power of His right hand.  Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the LORD our God.” 

Psalm 20:6-7

When you’ve got a problem that needs solving, where do you start?  When you need a victory, to whom do you look for help?

On Sunday morning when the girls went to check on the ant situation they found only a few lonely villains left.  It was definitely a prayer victory for Violet; she’d effectively used her shield of faith.  We didn’t even ask whether Bob had intervened after all.  Violet’s method was more practical, more logical than bug spray.  God’s track record for solving problems is undefeated.

So here’s my challenge for you:  Next time you’ve got a problem, try the most logical approach.  Pray FIRST.

Crystal Nachtigall

 

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UNSHAKEABLE

A mighty fortress is our God; a sacred refuge is Your name

Your kingdom is unshakable; With You forever we will reign

 

You may have heard Pastor Brian allude to a family whose house was broken into this last week. Well, we were the family. After a full day of work, dinner together as family and a couple of hours of CPR instruction, we came home to open drawers, tossed clothing, and a TV parked close to the exit window the burglars used. We were in shock and we were shaken.

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While we still feel the effects of last Thursday’s break-in, we have been able to put some of this crime in perspective. Much of what we lost was jewelry and money. While some of the pieces were family gifts, it all amounts to stuff. No one was hurt. No one was a hostage. The things – read, people – we value most are intact.

Yes, we lost “valuables,” and we could have lost other things as well. Yet these “treasures” are not what our life is about. We have this opportunity now to understand what it really means to not treasure the material things of this world more than the kingdom of our Lord and King. Jesus himself reminded us,

“Don’t store up treasures here on earth, where moths eat them and rust destroys them, and where thieves break in and steal. Store your treasures in heaven, where moths and rust cannot destroy, and thieves do not break in and steal. Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.”

Matthew 6:19-21

I certainly do not want robberies to be a regular occurrence for us in order to hold this perspective. If anything, I hope we continue to have a lasting gratitude for what we have been given as a trust for the purposes of God’s glory. I also do not want this event to rob us of the certain truth that God is our fortress and refuge, our very present help in time of trouble.

Our confidence in locks and gates is certainly shaken. Our sense of personal security is rattled. The good news is that God’s kingdom among us is NOT shaken. Our confidence in the Lord is intact. He certainly knows what happened and will certainly take care of the justice we desire. We stand confident that our God is still watching us and giving us refuge even now. May this witness to God’s faithfulness encourage and remind you that the Lord will be a refuge for you even as He is for our family.

-Mike Spinelli-Choir Drector

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