Company’s coming to stay with us a couple days. These are missionary friends we met in the Philippines and have not seen in several years. They’ve never been in our home, so we’re looking forward to the opportunity to reconnect.
When company comes, especially out of town overnight guests, we get busy. The house gets extra cleaning, furniture might get moved around a little, and the yard gets some special attention. I don’t think we’re being disingenuous – there’s just something in all of us that wants to put our good foot forward, make a good impression, and appear calm and chaos-free.
Let’s be honest – besides the neat-nicks among us, our homes are not always perfectly tidy. The dirty laundry doesn’t always hit the hamper, undealt-with mail languishes on the table, and the detritus of life finds countertops and coffee tables. We fear that someone may drop by and see what we are really like in the midst of a busy week. And yet, if we happen upon a friend’s “au naturel” house we’re not offended. Is this double standard hypocritical?
It depends on attitude. One person scrubs down the house for fear of how others will judge them if it is less than spotless, while another puts in the extra effort as an act of love for the guest. Same exterior result, different internal motivation. But the self-centered way will drive you crazy, while the other-focused effort brings joy. To realize, “I’m creating a homey welcome for my guests” makes mopping and dusting strangely satisfying.
This weekend at Bethany Church you’re going to notice a fresh look to our parking areas – fresh sealant and parking lines on the asphalt. You’ll notice the usual excellent work of the Sod Squad keeping grass green and sidewalks edged. In the evening you’ll notice attractive energy-saving LED street lamps, and soon you’ll be logging on to a new website. The Stewardship team is working on a plan to improve our restrooms and apply an overdue coat of paint to the building exterior in the near future, and a design team is exploring ways to freshen the look of our stage area.
Why you ask? Because taking care of our facilities is responsible stewardship. The building and grounds belong to the Lord, and he has entrusted them to us. We also want to create an attractive and welcoming environment for friends and neighbors. This is not driven out of fear or pride for what others will think of us – it’s an act of love to the unsaved and unchurched friends we are seeking to introduce to Jesus. Creativity also reflects the nature of our Heavenly Father, the First Artist and Almighty Creator. We want our facilities to say, “Welcome, relax, be at home and at ease, in a place where you will hear the Good News of God’s great love for you.”
Hebrews 13:2a reminds us, “Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers.” That’s why I’m excited to see some fresh changes. If it means I need to contribute some extra effort or extra funds, I’m willing, because I love our friends and neighbors enough to give them a fresh and clean welcome. I’m not trying to impress anyone, I just want to show our love by making the wonderful Bethany facilities an even better place to hear the Good News and be introduced to Jesus our Lord.
Brian Wiebe- Lead Pastor