Most of us are acquainted with someone who recently graduated whether it was from high school, college, or graduate school. In fact, two of my nephews just graduated from high school in Kentucky. Although I wasn’t able to attend the festivities, I’m sure there was a party to celebrate each one’s rite of passage into adulthood. Not only are students graduating from high school and college, but it’s also wedding season. Weddings…now that’s a whole different level of planning and anxiety. Cake, punch, wedding and reception location, photographer, videographer, food, bridesmaids, groomsmen, gifts for the wedding party, not to mention the rehearsal dinner and a whole host of other extremely important things that I have surely left out.
You might be wondering where this is going. To be honest, I’m not sure I can articulate exactly why I am perplexed by all the forethought and planning goes into these types of life events. I think it has to do with the uncertainty of the transition from one life stage to the next. I do know that I am once again standing on the brink of “What next?” At age 43, all of the planning and life direction that I thought was mapped out just a few years ago is again changing. And just as that high school or collage graduate, or that newly married young man, I’m trying to make sense of what the future will bring. I must admit that I’m guilty of always looking 5 or 10 years down the road and not only wondering, but also worrying, about what those years hold for my family and me. I’m guilty of forgetting to live and find joy in the small moments of each day.
I take comfort and find hope in Paul’s words from Philippians 4:11, “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” My challenge is finding the balance between “do not worry about tomorrow” in Matthew 6:34 and the constant temptation to look ahead.
Roy Moore – Interim Youth Director