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FINDING YOUR WAY

My dog hates my crutches. Not that he knows what they are, but something about me walking around with these strange shiny sticks has him freaked out.

I really noticed it today when I tried to let him into the house. He was on the patio, looking through the glass door with that wistful dog-look of longing. Satchel is a house dog and a social animal, so time along outside is a pure drag for him. Yet when I, feeling pity for the dog, hobbled to the door to let him in, he refused to enter. Tail wagging furiously, he simply could not bring himself to walk past my crutches.

Life’s better for Satchel inside the house, so I made it my mission to find a way to let him in. I scooted around behind the door and fairly easily coaxed him over the threshold at that point. I helped him find his way in.

In my last blog I wrote that life is more enjoyable and makes more sense when there is a purpose, like a destination or reason for a Sunday afternoon drive. At Bethany Church, our purpose is “to make Christ Jesus known in our communities and beyond.” How we do that becomes our mission.

In a way, we are like my crippled self inviting the reluctant dog into the house: I have my own limitations right now, my own flaws and scars, and I could not pick him up or force him in. I had to adjust my way of doing things so he could find his own way in.  front-doors

Isn’t that a little how it is when we relate to the spiritually lost? We want them to know the better life of following Christ, but there are obstacles that hold them back. They might not know their own need, or they might have had a bad experience with the church, or they may be angry at God for a hardship they’ve suffered. Our role is to help them find their way into a relationship with God. We can’t make it happen, and we can’t be upset with them for keeping their distance. They don’t know yet what it would mean to yield to Christ Jesus.

So that’s our mission. We’re here to help others to Jesus. At Bethany Church, we’re stating our mission this way: “Helping neighbors, friends and family to find their way into the grace and truth of Jesus Christ and follow him together.”

Keep in mind that it is God’s will to save. 1 Timothy 2:4-5 reminds us that God “wants everyone to be saved and to understand the truth. For there is one God and one Mediator who can reconcile God and humanity – the man Jesus Christ.

Neither you nor I can save anyone. I’m not sure we can even “lead them to Christ”, at least not in any forceful way. But we can invite. We can explain. We can listen. We can share, we can testify, we can model. We can adjust our way of doing things so we are less in the way of God’s grace. We do all we can to help our neighbors, friends and family to find their way into a relationship with God by faith in Jesus. And when they come, we’ll follow Jesus together.

Back here at home, Satchel is much happier in the house, but he’ll be much happier when these terrifying crutches are gone. I’ll be happier too!

Brian Wiebe-Lead Pastor 

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Cleaning House

Company’s coming to stay with us a couple days. These are missionary friends we met in the Philippines and have not seen in several years. They’ve never been in our home, so we’re looking forward to the opportunity to reconnect.

When company comes, especially out of town overnight guests, we get busy. The house gets extra cleaning, furniture might get moved around a little, and the yard gets some special attention. I don’t think we’re being disingenuous – there’s just something in all of us that wants to put our good foot forward, make a good impression, and appear calm and chaos-free.

Let’s be honest – besides the neat-nicks among us, our homes are not always perfectly tidy. The dirty laundry doesn’t always hit the hamper, undealt-with mail languishes on the table, and the detritus of life finds countertops and coffee tables. We fear that someone may drop by and see what we are really like in the midst of a busy week. And yet, if we happen upon a friend’s “au naturel” house we’re not offended. Is this double standard hypocritical?

It depends on attitude. One person scrubs down the house for fear of how others will judge them if it is less than spotless, while another puts in the extra effort as an act of love for the guest. Same exterior result, different internal motivation. But the self-centered way will drive you crazy, while the other-focused effort brings joy. To realize, “I’m creating a homey welcome for my guests” makes mopping and dusting strangely satisfying.

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This weekend at Bethany Church you’re going to notice a fresh look to our parking areas – fresh sealant and parking lines on the asphalt. You’ll notice the usual excellent work of the Sod Squad keeping grass green and sidewalks edged. In the evening you’ll notice attractive energy-saving LED street lamps, and soon you’ll be logging on to a new website. The Stewardship team is working on a plan to improve our restrooms and apply an overdue coat of paint to the building exterior in the near future, and a design team is exploring ways to freshen the look of our stage area.

Why you ask? Because taking care of our facilities is responsible stewardship. The building and grounds belong to the Lord, and he has entrusted them to us. We also want to create an attractive and welcoming environment for friends and neighbors. This is not driven out of fear or pride for what others will think of us – it’s an act of love to the unsaved and unchurched friends we are seeking to introduce to Jesus. Creativity also reflects the nature of our Heavenly Father, the First Artist and Almighty Creator. We want our facilities to say, “Welcome, relax, be at home and at ease, in a place where you will hear the Good News of God’s great love for you.”

Hebrews 13:2a reminds us, “Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers.” That’s why I’m excited to see some fresh changes. If it means I need to contribute some extra effort or extra funds, I’m willing, because I love our friends and neighbors enough to give them a fresh and clean welcome. I’m not trying to impress anyone, I just want to show our love by making the wonderful Bethany facilities an even better place to hear the Good News and be introduced to Jesus our Lord.

 

Brian Wiebe- Lead Pastor

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